There is a state of life which is in between good or bad. It is the state of contentment and happiness. pronouncing your judgement on everything good or bad is could be a sign of hidden anxiety. Let us celebrate the life with the things as they are without being judgemental.
Life isn’t black or white. It is a million shades of grey.
Let’s take the classic case of Vijender Singh, a celebrated boxer under investigation for drug possession and abuse. It’s always easier to state categorically that what he did was wrong, drug use is wrong, than it is to think about how the situation came about in the first place. It takes energy to think. But it is permanently rewarding.
Always put yourself in others’ shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.
This is a great concept. Putting ourselves in the shoes of Vijender Singh might help us understand the desperation that he was feeling. Judging him as a criminal is dead easy. Understanding and accepting his actions as all too human requires a lot of thinking.